Gaslighting is a form of abuse and it’s very common in unhealthy relationships. According to Psychology Today, “Victims of gaslighting are fed false information that leads them to question what they know to be true. They may end up doubting their memory, their perception, and even their sanity.” Gaslighting Meaning and Origin of the Term As explained in Vox, the phrase to gaslight refers to the act of undermining another person’s reality by denying facts, the environment around them, or even their feelings....

This person you just met makes you feel special and treats you like the most important person in their life. You are their top priority. Then one day they say they love you, and you believe them. Maybe you love them too. This new relationship makes you feel great, full of energy. You are so happy you finally found “the one.” It’s the first time you feel this strong connection with someone, and you never thought it was even possible....

Disclaimer: this post may contain affiliate links, which means that I may receive a commission if you make a purchase using these links, at no additional cost for you. A few years ago I experienced one of the lowest points in my life. I found myself in the devaluation stage of a relationship with a narcissist and realized I was being emotionally abused. Before then, I didn’t even know what narcissistic abuse was....

Disclaimer: this post may contain affiliate links, which means I may receive a commission if you make a purchase using these links, at no additional cost for you. When we think of heartache, we often think about breakups and divorce, but one of the most heartbreaking experiences of our lives isn’t the moment of separation but the moment we begin to suspect that it’s coming. They begin to pull away from us....

Insecurity is not easy to identify, especially when you are still getting to know someone. It usually manifests after a few months you are dating a person. As Tony Robbins explains, the core cause of insecurity in relationships is often a lack of self-love. Also, as mentioned in an article published in Psychology Today, most of the time insecurity is based on irrational thoughts and fears. For example, you may believe that you are not enough, that you are not lovable, that you will never find anyone better, that your partner might find someone better than you....

Disclaimer: this post may contain affiliate links, which means that I may receive a commission if you make a purchase using these links, at no additional cost for you. People pleasing is the opposite of self-respect. And unfortunately, many of us have this habit. See, being a people pleaser means you don’t live on your own terms. You believe you are just being easy to deal with, super helpful, and kind....

While Tinder has often had a reputation for being a hookup site, there are many people still dating and finding relationships there. No matter why you find yourself on Tinder, there are some pretty general rules of thumb when it comes to talking to women you connect with there. Because Tinder has a swipe left or right for interest setup, you’ll only match with others who showed interest, which automatically gets you a foot in the door....

Disclaimer: this post may contain affiliate links, which means I may receive a commission if you make a purchase using these links, at no additional cost for you. When you have been great friends with a man for a while and you start liking him, you start wondering if he likes you too. This at times puts you in a dilemma as you don’t understand which signs to look out for....

When it comes to unhealthy dating and relationship tips, they seem to be everywhere, often disguised as the secret formula to the perfect love life. There’s no magic formula when it comes to love, yet too many people buy those “secret recipes” that promise to help seduce anyone. And they’re still out there, wondering why they haven’t found their soulmate yet. An example of a guy who followed bad relationship advice Years ago, I started dating a guy who captured my attention with his sense of humor....

Not every relationship you have is meant to be your forever love or soulmate bond. It’s unrealistic to think otherwise. Dating is a process. You’ll find people who are compatible with you for a short time but aren’t capable of growing with you for a lifetime. Some relationships stay firmly in the realm of friendship while others cross that line into a deeper, romantic love. The friends with benefits relationship blurs the line entirely....

Disclaimer: this post may contain affiliate links, which means I may receive a commission if you make a purchase using these links, at no additional cost for you. Marriages have their ups and downs. It’s not one long drawn-out honeymoon period. Tough times are inevitable. I knew that going into my marriage, but over time, I began to question if my marriage was in a natural down cycle or if my husband simply no longer valued me....

Few things are worse than first-date silence. Knowing a few great conversation-starters and knowing how to use them during a date can improve your dating experiences. However, there is something even more effective than conversation-starters: follow-up questions. These are questions that can make conversations deeper because by using them, you encourage the other person to share more details about what they are already talking about. To say it another way, you encourage them to talk more about what they actually want to talk about — usually themselves....

You and your partner probably spend a lot of time together. This is why there’s a good chance you’ll notice if they have depression. However, it can still be difficult to notice the earliest warning signs. Depression is not uncommon, unfortunately. The statistics are pretty shocking: in 2019, an estimated 19.4 million adults in the United States had at least one major depressive episode. This number represented 7.8% of all U....

It’s a well-known fact that most Tinder accounts are absolutely flooded with prospects. Not only do you have to worry about the potential for chemistry, connection, and shared values, but you also have to consider how to even stand out from the crowd of other interested singles. Conversation Starters for Tinder to Help You Stand Out From the Crowd With so many choices and so little time, it’s important to have a few conversation topics at the ready to have a snowball’s chance on a summer’s day in Georgia to make that love (or lust) connection....

Many think desirability is determined by appearance, wealth, or power. Yes, some people might value those things, a lot. However, what usually sets desirable people apart is a combination of qualities that have nothing to do with the way they look or their status. The most attractive traits of a person focus mostly on their personality and inner beauty. What follows are a few qualities highly desirable people have in common....

Disclaimer: this post may contain affiliate links, which means I may receive a commission if you make a purchase using these links, at no additional cost for you. Whether we’re talking about men, women, or gender-fluid people, human beings in general tend to get their wires crossed. However, if you learn to recognize these signs, you can understand if a man is attracted to you. How to Tell if a Guy Likes You 1....

Disclaimer: this post may contain affiliate links, which means I may receive a commission if you make a purchase using these links, at no additional cost for you. We often receive emails from readers explaining to us their situation and asking us: “How do I know if he really loves me?” If you’re asking yourself these questions, then this article might help you get answers. When you’re in a healthy relationship, you hardly ever realize how blessed you are....

Building a healthy relationship is not easy. It’s hard. Because it takes two emotionally mature individuals to make it work. It takes two people who already feel complete as individuals and who don’t expect a potential romantic partner to resolve all their problems or to fill a void. To put it another way, a good relationship can only exist between two people who are in love with themselves and with their own life, who are okay with being alone if things don’t go as expected....

Disclaimer: this post may contain affiliate links, which means I may receive a commission if you make a purchase using these links, at no additional cost for you. Charming a woman is not easy, you must play your cards right. She might seem interested, but then she can pull away any moment. You have to seduce in a way she doesn’t even realize she’s being seduced. Charming a woman has a lot to do with a man’s personality....

You have probably heard of the most common and popular personality types like the alpha male, the alpha female, the beta male, and the beta female. However, something that is gradually attracting even more attention than the above-mentioned personality types is the sigma. What Is the Sigma Personality? Sigma personality is a term used to describe a set of traits typical of someone who is confident, ambitious and strong – like alphas – but who is also highly independent and enjoys spending time alone....